last day of aug’14

i had a last min slot 4facial! n yeah, i m done, now doin pedi.. while havin sandwich..

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my dear therapist is goin back nex week 2her hometown 2delivery her 2nd bundle of joy! i think this is é last tim i m goin 4facial till delivery.. i can’t lie down for more than 1 hour…

i felt junior move a little bit while doin facial n my stomach crunchin.. this sandwich is good 2last me for quite a while.. till he comes n picks me up for h&m mat clothes shoppin again…

interesting dinner, taka basm expedition…
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i can’t believe it, we cleared é front bedroom! most of the thgs r thrown or pack in2 cartons.. includin my stock..

now i can’t wait 4thurs… 2handyman will visit n quote how much 2dismantle n dispose these fixtures… n we decided 2tak all down! including all é bookshelves n weird long table.. wat a waste, but it really does not justify é use of space…

post all é packin n movin, we headed 2mac 4supper! lik old days, n we actually walked there.. indeed 想当年。。。

survived è 4th week wait…

no emergency walk in in btwn.. hope junior is doin well…

è wait is 1hr, ok for me.. i don see é usual 2nd tim mum, mayb she changed her aptm… é detail scan is all good, elimates most of é major problems.. gender boy.. growth a bit ahead, but it’s not goin 2change é edd..

i asked a list of med qns lik é need 4episiotomy n will there likely be keloids… he said mostly likely he will cut, tear risky long run n dangerous 4asian women.. keloids unlikely for tat part of é skin coz higher blood flow…

i asked abt epidural, he recommend usin 4first, dun put urself 2go through é truma.. 2nd one not recommended 2use.. if he is not around there will b a standby doc n mt alv will know who to page..

i also ask é usual cutoff for premie, in case i hav serious contractions, i need 2know if i should go mt alv or kkh… he said fair qns, usually aft 35wks is quite safe.. but he thinks i should b ok, but i still think u never know…

é scan today is quite funny.. junior facing inside n he turned a bit as we scan.. saw part of é face.. n é very obvious gential… tummy a bit big, opps… this is é face!

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i asked abt placenta, he says still a bit over è cervix, should b good 2try natural, but to abstain from bd n strenous exercise.. no clots around cervix, tat’s good in a way…

we went 2a lot of places aft é doc.. 2marina sq to return 2pieces n loan 2new maternity wear, 2chinatown for é baby goods shop on level 3 blk 34, to rws 2use é parkin voucher, tried msian food.. 2vivo 2shop a bit more.. n finally 2mil shop… i may b é most calm n not excited mum-to-be, everythg think prudent n keep secretive…

during supper, bil was so confident that any pregnancy aft 3m can b confirmed, we kinda told him a lot of thgs can still happen actually.. but i guess not everyone is like us – 船头怕人, 船未怕鬼, 船中间怕漏水! dar dar actually told them if it’s not for the tummy that we canot hide anymore, he wun even wan 2tell till dec aft junior is out… meow~

birdnest again…

tues again.. simple dinner at mum’s place… birdnest again..
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lookin back @my workplace drama, i think not only saw 1 replicate, i see 2 now.. 1 men n 1 lady… muahaha..

let me continue with the records retriving… i like paper…

i kinda clean up some of é very long outstanding things.. more thgs 2start workin on… yawnzz

5d to nex visit

it’s é countdown moment again.. 5d to nex visit 2gyne n review é detail scan report.. junior jus gave me a kick @my upper stomach.. woo.. i guess it’s bad n busy day ahead.. brace on!

super tired @work 2day.. sm people r jus weird, dun believe dun sign up…

bff doin d&c 2day, i trust 2believe everybaby have it’s course in life.. dun think 2much about è 冲 thgs…

last fri we went back 2mil shop 2tak smthg.. he told them abt junior arrivin around xmas n it’s a boy.. 2day fil called n said er sao is expecting too! as i expected! mayb she wun come 2junior 1st mth celebratñ… i really can’t stand her brgin an army everywhere she goes… same thg, i m so worried about é 冲 thgs, but i guess believe in ourselves!

i m browsing é 1st mth celebration goodies.. we really hope junior grow up well, look 4ward 2dec!

smthg we tried yesterday @expo, nex 2baby fair…
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tues swing by again…

another tues came by.. rough day 2day, on course for the last 2days of this week… sittin there n worryin wun help.. need 2buckle up, think of solutions n ride é waves…

junior kickin away n i can feel belly button poppin out soon! we really wish junior grow up well, b healthy n see him in about 4mths!

finally on way 2mrt now lik 19.07.. hungry die me.. i realise people can b really shameless, men takin seats away from preggie old auntie like me on mrt!
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n mummy made birdnest again, yumz… as usual i ta bao hm n enjoyed it aft bathin..

not everyday is sun, look 4ward!

with love from mummy…

mummy is gettin so buzy for me.. this tue when i went back 4din, she fried chicken with ginger, steam drumstick, soup n veg! hah.. wat a feast… n there is double boil bird nest, yummz..

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i feel junior move here n there smtimes.. but not all é time.. i really hope he grows up well n be healthy! lookin 4ward 2dec..

gyne clinic updated detail scan looks fine.. nex tim i hav 2ask if natural delivery is possible, esp w/é low placenta issue at week 12…

national day…

post detail scan on tues, no calls from gyne clinic, i guess nothg wrong bah.. i will still try 2call nex week lar…

one of é ttc watsapp group kaki fb msg me.. she went through tough times last few mths.. hope thgs get better for her.. i text sm of é rest n 1 of them is takin off soon 2try 1 more fresh.. let me try 2mail them é 好孕棉 n opk, i really wish our kids all arrives in this 1 year n grow up together!! i met é one takin off this wkend n saw è handyplast on her hand…  心痛 for her.. really hope she bfp this cycle n healthy baby in arms in 9mth time…

3 of them r cyclin / goin 2cycle in aug.. i m goin 2meet 1 of them this noon n post out é rest today… without their advices, we would not have started ivf so soon…

he left work late on fri, pick me from ps at 8pm, went shuffle 2try our luck, too bad, no luck.. headed 2beer market, had din n drks.. played pool! with junior.. i was still hungry n had my fav chinatown porridge!!

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i guess 18weeks to junior arrival, will è home furnishin be completed by then?

after junior arrives, i hope 2brg fil over for lunch on sun lik once or twice a mth.. then send him back n say hi to mil… i can only hope 4é best.. lookin 4ward 2dec!!

this morn, i walked 2é mkt n bought breakfast.. l luv mkt! the stall hawkers call me xiao mei!
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i m here again, this tim waitin 4my watsapp kakis.. mum is comin later.. 还愿。。。
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past detail scan…

junior appeared on è legendary detail scan! haha.. measurin many thgs, lookin 4arms, fingers.. face..

let me call é clinic tml or fri, hope all is good… n we went buzy huntin 4gift wrapin items 4work…

aft all è walkin, we went back 2mummy’s plc 4din n told her junior is arrivin in dec! she still ask really? n of course 2alter è pants n dress.

wed is busy n this funny necklace gives way easily…

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passed 19wks, another 19wks 2go…

we went 4è usual visit, dr was really shorthanded, haha.. é doc had 2prepare é armchair for scan.. when he started scannin we saw junior suckin his thumb, so funny…

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he thinks all looks normal. i felt it looks a bit crowded, but he said it’s ok. he said é last tim already saw è gender right, i told him 70%, even aft detail scan it is only 95% right.. he laugh n said they try not 2say 100%. he scan n said sure boy lar.. he saw è scortum, all was jus shadow! but he said it’s scortum lar.. i asked in his clinic wat’s é mostly occured gender for icsi is boy or ger? he said boy, coz é most good lookin sperms r è fastest swimmers..

junior was steppin on my cervix when doc was scannin, but i can’t feel anythg. he asked about fetal movem, i can’t really feel.

è scan shows junior is 21w, n my detail scan is on tues! it will b@peh, i went there 4hsg before… ohh oh, i hav 2tak half day leave..

lunch is chicken pot @novena square2, with my groupon! haha! happy us… no pics coz 2hungry.